We often have difficulty knowing what we want IN a relationship and FROM a relationship. Many of us do not know. Maybe we do not want to be alone, or we are in a relationship because the other person really needs us, or that relationship provides for you financially, or you have been with this person so long you cannot see another way, or you just need to be with someone because being single has negative connotations.. Whatever the reason, many of us do not know why we are no